Disputes between adolescents and parents are inevitable. However, in some cases, parents have to watch their teen’s behavior and brought them disciplined.
1 – rather than trying to talk to your child, listening to him now
Remember that God gave us two ears and one mouth, so instead of being constantly advised his teenage open language, the words and listen to his Drdvdl. Teens have a strong desire to talk to their parents, of course, provided that enough silence and give a chance to talk to him.
2 – make time to assign your teen
Your teen may be at school, with friends or with their various hobbies (such as computers, Internet, etc.) is very entertaining. But it is you who must communicate with him and to break the distance. Favorite places, or situations where the teen is chosen and your relationship with him again.
3 – To make sure your teen’s privacy
Teens are much interested in solitude. Therefore, they do not hesitate conditions. If you find to his room and took refuge with the quiet and solitude constantly break him.
4 – Know your teen’s interests
Listening to music, watching TV, going to the cinema and theater and … the interests of young people. Allowing them known favorite pastimes and even get your child in this fun, please join.
5 – the role parents play with your love
Teens in demarcations, process identification, with mixed emotions encountered many and need the love and attention of their parents. Your interest in the behavior, demonstrate, celebrate his birthday, mistakes forgive and forget, to talk and listen to their problems and to solve problems, not side by side with them. All of these measures improve and promote self-esteem in teens, is constructive role.
Teens have a strong desire to talk to their parents, of course, provided that enough silence and give a chance to talk to him …
6 – negative communication into positive communication change …
To be able to convert negative correlation to positive relationships to consider these suggestions:
7 – with your teens about how to have a good relationship, join the discussion and suggest strategies to each other.
8 – When you want to know about your child’s behavior problems, talk with him, try to prioritize your content
For example, driving without a license, engage in inappropriate parties, stay out of the house too and it is better to be prioritized. But some behaviors, such as being messy bedroom or fights and arguments with siblings, other times it’s better to be postponed.
9 – to discipline your teen train
Disputes between adolescents and parents are inevitable. However, in some cases, parents have to watch their teen’s behavior and brought them disciplined. Teenager on a regular discipline from parents who love them, need. But most parents learn through trial and error, based on their disciplinary procedures. But here we have a better offer before announcing any kind of discipline or punishment, relax. Very clear thinking about the problem and consider your options. Then a decision is applicable that a firm and fair. Do not forget the main purpose of discipline, not punishment but also to create self-control adolescent education and prepare her for adulthood. This includes bonuses, limits and postponement of pleasure which must be age-appropriate for your child.
The main goal of discipline is not punishment but also education and prepare teens for the creation of self-control he is for adults …
10 – Be a good listener to your teen
Spend some time listening to your teen talk. for example:
– Really listen to what your teen. For example, stop what you’re doing, make eye contact with him and do not stop talking.
– To value and respect your teen comments and note that he has a different view of the world from you.
– Instead of the pronoun “you” of the pronoun “I” to use. For example, tell your child, “You did not pay attention to my words and do not explain to me where you go” instead it is better to say: “If you do not explain to me where you go I’m worried about you. “
– Note that if your teen does not listen and do not pay attention to what he does in touch with you